One thing I’ve learned in life is that true happiness comes from within. We need to do what makes us happy to live our best life. As we’re all on different paths, what we hold dear may be irrelevant to another. That said, some may not understand why the transition, and sharing it, is a big deal. In a society that relies heavily on social media and how we look, I think it’s important to put the message out to other women that it’s OK to be you. If those around you won’t take to time to see your heart, where you’re coming from and your true intentions, they’re not your people. If you’re being judged solely on your appearance, the problem lies with those judging and not you.
After 20 years, I’ve made the decision to ditch the dye. As of today, I’m 8 weeks dye free. This was a decision that I thought long and hard about. The last thing I want to do is look older being that I’ve never looked my age. I enjoy makeup and pulling myself together for me. It makes me feel good to put my best self out there. I love wearing makeup but don’t judge those who don’t. I actually respect them for being themselves in a society that is so judgemental. Having my roots show may appear to some that I’m letting myself go. On the contrary, I’m slowly blooming into who I’m meant to be.
There are several ways to make this transition.
- Go lighter to lessen the drastic difference between the gray roots and dyed hair
- Dye it gray with dark low lights
- Cut it really short
- Grow it out
I decided to go with the fourth option although the second is tempting. I just don’t want to spend an entire day at a salon bleaching my hair to get it gray and run the risk of ruining it. Short hair is fun, but one drastic change at a time for me right now.
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Are you thinking about making the transition?
Are you a silver sister? If so, what products do you recommend to keep your gray looking beautiful?
Please share in the comments. I’m excited to hear your thoughts. Thank you for coming on this journey with me!
